My Creepy Stalker


Experience has taught me to always, ALWAYS trust my instinct. To never ignore the alarm inside when it goes off.

My past has come to confront me, to try, to sting me. But I’m way tougher than I was. I made a decision and I stand by it til date!

Self-preservation is every human being’s first and foremost thought and priority and that is what I did too, a long time ago.  And I will be very honest and forthcoming today because I don’t care what others think of me at this point.

It’s not like me to post private chats on public forums, but today, I will make an exception. This stupidity has gone far enough, this matter has been left untouched for too long.
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Okay, here’s the story.

My version.

Without nasty curses or foul language, which Allah knows how much I want to use and how easy it is, but I’m not going to stoop down to his level, no matter what!
Some years ago- I don’t remember if it was 3 or 4 years, ’cause, honestly, he isn’t important and the matter wasn’t either- there was this guy in my friend-list, who claimed he was in love with me, without seeing me and without knowing what I looked like. I told him I didn’t reciprocate and didn’t want to even in the future. Simply because I wasn’t interested. But some people make it a point to be annoyingly argumentative. He did that too. I kept saying no, in a polite manner and he kept coming stronger than ever. That annoyed me to my limit. So I discussed my predicament with an old friend. He replied; “I’m a guy and I know how love works for us. We don’t fall for mystery or brains, we fall for beauty. He hasn’t seen you so there is no chance that what he claims is true. There is only one simple solution. Block him and get over with it.”
And I blocked him, thinking, it would be the end of the story. But no! Life had something else in store for me. Here, I have to mention that guy asked me to unfriend and block him, if my answer was no and if it was final. If I do, he will get the answer. But when I do block him, I start getting messages from his friends and from his brother’s id. I blocked them too but that wasn’t enough for him! He, next, comes to my blog to comment here. I didn’t approve so he started writing a blog himself, which I never bothered to read-frankly. I didn’t want anything to do with him, but my mistake was, I didn’t say those words on his face. I wasn’t a bitch about it. Til date, that seems to be my biggest mistake that I tried to turn him down politely.

Anyway, I have no idea if he kept stalking me or not, after that. But some months ago, he came back, from a fake id, posing as a girl. While its a bit flattering that he would keep a grudge all these years, in actuality, its much more pathetic that he didn’t have anything better to do than that.

Honestly, how many polite ways do you think, are there to tell someone that you want nothing to do with them?!
Anyway, I tell that “girl” one day, subtly, that I don’t trust her and that my instinct says that she’s from my past, somehow. She denies- obviously. But my instinct proved to be right, because she was a “HE” from my past. That same creepy stalker who kept burning in his fire of vengeance for so long. Oh and he had the audacity to call me a monster and a bitch and then tell me it was “below his dignity to reply to me,” as if I was dying to hear from him….
*rolling my eyes*
And then he went on to tell me to “go, screw myself.”
A big LOL!!! I mean, seriously, if this kind of trash talking is how “Literate people”, and “people with dignity,” talk, I’m glad that I’m an “illiterate, inconsiderate, Bitch without a conscience!” and I’m actually proud of being myself! Because that seems to be more respectable than stooping “down,” or should I say “UP,” to your level!

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Oh, and as for your hatred for me, I wouldn’t be caught giving a damn about it. You aren’t important for me. Never were! You called me a Bitch, well, you haven’t seen me being one yet, so don’t push your luck. There’s only so far that my patience runs 🙂

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Before I go, I would say the only thing I want to convey.

“Get a life you Creep!”

Oh, and here’s a clue:“stay the hell out of my life from now on. You aren’t welcome here.”

oh just great!


You are being stalked-start of the problem.

You endure your privacy violation/invasion silently.

You take your mum in confidence-she’s supportive.

The stalker calls again-your mum talks and tells him to stop-great!

Your brother gives you anger phlegm.

Your dad tells you to shut off the mobile at home-as if that would solve anything when you go back to university!

Great-just great!!!

Your brother wants you to break the sim immediately-Okay,thats enough!

You trust your family to support you in such situations and not turn against you in a way-who needs that?

Then you finally decide-they are not to make the final decisions-its your life,your choices.They are welcome to give opinions-but not to impose them on you.

Some of you may have strong reasons to oppose me.I respect that-but I can’t even think of my life being controlled by someone.

 

P.S:You are welcome to share your opinions here too 🙂

Mr.Stalker/s. . . . . .with tantrums,Me!



I think someone is stalking me.Every month(give or take 1 or 2 months)I receive a call from an unknown number(new number every time).I take it but don’t speak.There’s always a male voice on the other end.And by the way,you know when someone has a purpose of calling and when not.So,every time the person cuts the call,starts texting.
text 1:who’s there?
(you called in,you tell)

text 2:by the way I’m  . . . . . . . . .
(dash filled with a supposed name)

text 3:now you tell who are you?
then countless stupid forwarded texts with philosophies of life and stupid lovey dowey poetry(both things

I happen to hate by the way.)

text number (who knows what):I know who you are!
O.o

Ahem,ahem-mind says red alert!!!

Then he tells me my name and where I happen to live and my ex-institute name(thanks to Allah he knows all the old infos-I mean my address and institute changed)

The thing is,all these brats are free or maybe wasting their time in immoral and unethical activities is their favourite sport-I’m not.And I’m not like them-I never would be!They are those who are trying to find girlfriends or just friends who happen to be girls!I HATE even to think about it.

So,Mr.stalker/s you should go and bother those girls who are willing to have boyfriends.If you don’t have any sense of limit,I’m sure,there are plenty of girls out there some where who are just like you.

I don’t like people who act like LEECHES-and thats exactly what you do.When you are told you’re not needed here-It actually and literally means GET LOST!!!

If only killing some people was allowed . . . . .
*sigh*

Pissing me off any more wont do.

With tantrums,

Me!